Tips to wisely choosing your partner
Dating Apps? Social Clubs? Parks? Parties? The mountain or the beach?
Many times we ask ourselves Where? But what kind of characteristics do people have that attracts us and then they end up being our partners. We are not programmed, but What happens if we are repeating patterns?
In the following article we will explore How and What kind of characteristics we have to understand to match with a partner. Also we would try to understand what happens with the partner in our life. Is the real love?
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The basic understanding
Apparently there are several reasons why we fell in love and we created a relationship with someone.
Recent studies show that genetics seem to have an important role in the preferences or tastes we have to be able to connect with a person. Certain characteristics in our bloodline can attract the right people to our lives. (1)
Many times we want to be able to figure out or understand why we can not strengthen a bond. As we age, the sentimental aspect of our life becomes more complex when it comes to forming a relationship.
If both parties share these behavioral habits aligned with care and healthy intake of nutrients, enhanced with physical exercise, will have the long-term results of a unique strength for each member, as well as the possibility of sharing more years together in their "Sweet Life".
These tips will help you make a better decision in your next chance to fall in love
Being able to address the issues at different scales and levels helps to make a better analysis of the aspects of each person.
We will focus the analysis by making a comparison of the following areas: Communication, compatibility, availability, respecting the limits, stability and "life point of view".
Let the communication flow. Problems with communication and the manifestation of feelings are usually the biggest problem that leads to couples breaking up. Certain neurological disorders, such as alexithymia, would condition the communication fluidity when establishing a bond with a person.
Be available Some couples who are married may have problems with stress or pressure, increased heart rate, or a slow immune reaction to certain conditions. The disorders that are unleashed in our body can be the product of a bad choice of partner. We must always prioritize someone who is "on par" with helping and collaborating for your mutual welfare.
Compatibility. It is useless to decide to spend time with a person who is similar to you. The key lies in being able to share with a person that is compatible from the point of view of their personality, that they share in meetings and eradicate arguments and misunderstandings.
Respect the limits. The existence of limits will allow the natural development of a couple. Respect for values and choices that may be made, from an individual standpoint as well as from the point of view of the relationship, will help to build a trust base needed to evolve and grow as people. Morals, good and evil, everything must be brought up and spoken about in order to clear doubts and uncertainties that would ultimately break the relationship.
Emotional stability. There are many people who have clear emotional deficits and individual imbalances that infect and even condition the person who decides to accompany them in a relationship. It is essential to have a dose of good predisposition, willingness, and humor to be able to face the daily life of both people.
“ Superficial” vs “ Healthy”. We can understand that certain physical aspects can attract attention or our glances prematurely with a person we know. After a while, these first vestiges and signs of attraction disappear, but we must not forget that the body is "the container" that holds us and that is why we must prioritize a healthy lifestyle, with adequate nutrition that allows us to develop a balanced mode.
Some guide and information
We are not programmed, if we are repeating patterns in our choices and we realize that our partners have some characteristic that is repeating itself it is time to break with that paradigm and develop in order to take that leap of value that catapults us towards a stable couple and that nourishes our heart and our emotion.
Ask a specialist to help us find a clearer path. Simply being able to detect and listen in time and certain suggestions can save us headaches and a lot of time getting to know another person.
If you have an open mind and want to know different aspects of your personality or of your partner's personality, it is always interesting to learn about these characteristics that we develop in the article.
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